Thursday, January 28, 2010

Ideas What To Write In A Sympathy Card What Should I Write In A Sympathy Card?

What should I write in a sympathy card? - ideas what to write in a sympathy card

My brothers girlfriend just lost her baby and should be eliminated next week, when he about 18 weeks of pregnancy. My mom and dad abroad and have sent a condolence card. They told me that my brother and his girlfriend to call (like me) in school do not know, but what I will say I am talking to people on the phone, so I know it is not a very good idea, since the topic of conversation. Therefore, my parents have to send a card, I am but I do not know what to write. I know what I have personally and not something to tell the country and over again, but I have no idea where to start. Can someone help me please?

5 comments:

Danelle M said...

I know exactly how he meant not 3 Birthday on 31 this month, was born 31 weeks sleeping on the feeling (like 3 weeks, expects to my baby ... It was very difficult) to find words of comfort and my cousin lost her twins at 21 weeks there in November. It is a terrible thing for a family, my thoughts are with you brother and his girlfriend and all of you.
Really, what I think, understand the best thing to do is help to know that you are there when they talked.
I'm sorry for your loss xxxx Familys

~SkY~ said...

I'm sorry to hear the news Im Through a loss is never easy. You can write anything, I have no words to describe how I feel much that you to go through it. Now you know you have an angel in heaven to be always safe. I'm here if you ever need anything. Something to that effect would mean a lot.

~SkY~ said...

I'm sorry to hear the news Im Through a loss is never easy. You can write anything, I have no words to describe how I feel much that you to go through it. Now you know you have an angel in heaven to be always safe. I'm here if you ever need anything. Something to that effect would mean a lot.

Bookatch... said...

The complaint should not be where issues that might not be a quick conversation and said he heard the news and I thank you sorry for your loss, and if there anything you can do only you know. If you do something about that which is to say, and perhaps make it less uncomfortable for you.

In my opinion, a letter from the immediate family is a bit impersonal, but I think it varies from family to family.

Writing on the card I wrote earlier that you just say that you are there for them if necessary.

MsTrini1... said...

I have a child and that was the hardest thing I've been through. Few people can say that you are feeling better. My suggestion is to speak from the heart and not accustomed to give a generic term answers that many women listen to after a miscarriage.

I suggest not saying "everything happens for a reason - he despised when people say that to me or whatever" will be ok, because this is not what I felt then, and my world seemed to crumble before me .

However, I guess someone just said that "they thought of me" or "was in their prayers." I must admit that the first thing anyone said to me, after I lost my uncle was. He called to say that "I can not honestly say what they are, but I meant what I thought of me." Be honest, do not complete sugar-coated words and meant the most.

Be honest and know your brother and his girlfriend that she is aYTime want to talk or need anything. Good luck.

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